Monday, July 2, 2007

Misconception

Things are not always what they seem to be. O the surface of an ocean there is a storm but under the water its calm with the gentle rocking of the current. Everytihng is judge at first glance whether we like it or not. This is often the misconception of love.

My experience with love has been bittersweet. I spent four years of my life with someone I adored, through the eyes of other they saw perfection and envied its qualties. What they failed to see is nothing perfect. When you forget to think about yourself and put your emotional needs first, You've become unhealthy.

To the world you may just be one person out of the billions of its inhabitants but everyone is able to find someone. Its one of life's greatest searches, It takes time and many lessons are leatned through the process. When the "right" person is finally found, it may not last forever. Divorce is a lot more common these days especially in order aged couples. Those one the couples that put their family first and eachother second. It leaves a big empty void and the couples forget about what they once loved each other for.

Loss of communication defines a bad relationship simply because, if your voice is not heard then nothing can reach a compromise. Yu can struggle to keep the ralationship going but emotions will flare.

Meaning the world to one person person is the point in the relationship where nothing seems to matter but each other. Fun is always being had and you cannot take your hands off eachother. With this slage through, a lot of peola fail to recognize their responsibilities and other commitments that they previously had. Friends start to feel ignores and same might be lost. By constantly being out you drift aeay from your family and communication is kept to a mare minimum. Sometimes you put your partners needs before your own and your own self person is being ignores. It requires a careful balance.

Love can be good or bad, What your definition of love is and what it means to you will be the basis n how well your love life will be. key things that everyone seemes to forget in a relationship of yourself mentally. This is such a simple conclusion on how to have a good love life yet people till suffer in relationships where they and get nothing in return.
When you finally do meet that person that you mean the world to and the feeling are the same, it is a special thing. You'v met someone in this world that you can love and be with for as long as you live. make sure you've happy and your needs are being met and suddenly you do not feel so small to the world.

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